This post is inspired by my cousin Mar, who commented today about having fallen off of her health commitment. As I began to reply to her, I realized I had way to much to share than to simply reply.
Personally, I’m finding the food thing easy for me right now (probably because for my survival I have little choice in the matter). The struggle I have is with keeping motivated with my mission here. I love posting a blog, reading replies, and responding, but I struggle to actually sit down and write daily (which is my goal). I’m just going to keep going though.
Here are a few key things to keep in mind about falling off, as well as few pointers to help keep you on track!
Falling off is:
- totally natural, if not expected. Us humans are not creatures that readily change our ways. So if you find it difficult to maintain a new lifestyle change then know that you are not alone!
- not a big deal unless you make it one. Sometimes one makes a poor decision that is not in line with his or her commitment. It’s gonna happen! Don’t let the whole day, week, or month be ruined by it. Your next decision has just as much power as the last. In fact it has more power because if the last decision was poor, it has no possibility of being great anymore. Your next decision has all the possibility in the world to be great, you choose!
I fall off of my commitments all the time. I know this is hard to believe because I am just so amazing right? Why thank you. Well I do! Some of the things I have found useful in keeping my commitments in check are:
- I have a white board on my fridge (thanks to Dave). It’s pretty simple. A little messy.
- The point is it is in a spot that I frequent throughout the day. So, every time I go to the fridge, I see my possibilities and my commitments, reminding me to stay on!
- before I go to sleep, I create a schedule for the next day. Worthy of note, I do not do this when I have fallen off. It is one of the things that keeps me focused and on track. When I stop doing this, falling off is usually not far behind. The benefit of the schedule is two-fold. First of all I get all that stuff out of my head, making sleep come easier (like I need any help with that). Secondly, I have a guidebook to look at throughout my day.
- I put more than just appointments in the calendar. If I want to walk outside every day, it’s gonna need to be in my calendar. Besides, doesn’t putting something in there make it more of a commitment for you? It does for me. Most things in my
calendar get done. Also, all things new to my calendar (in that it is an activity that I am not accustomed to doing already), get an alarm. This is because I know I will need to be reminded!
Perhaps these pointers are elementary to you, but do you actually do them? I know I have heard this all before. Theact of typing it all out has served as a reminder to continue to follow through for myself. What things do you do to keep committed to yourself? Please share below as I can use all the pointers I can get!